March Madness: Parenting time and Spring break

Spring break – a time for kids to unwind, recharge, and maybe even head out on an adventure. But for separated or divorced parents, this carefree period can turn into a legal battleground. Courts often see a surge in custody disputes as parents scramble to determine who gets the coveted spring break time with their children.

Here's the reality check: with court dockets backed up for months, a last-minute hearing probably won't settle things before the break arrives. So, what can you do to avoid the stress and legal fees?

Check Your Orders First: Before the battle lines are drawn, take a deep breath and review your existing custody agreement. Does it address spring break specifically? If so, that's your roadmap.

Communication is Key: If the agreement is silent on spring break, talk to your co-parent. Can you come to a mutually agreeable solution through open and honest communication? Consider splitting the break, allowing the kids to weigh in on activities.

Think Beyond the Beach: Remember, the goal is to create a positive experience for your children. If going on the dream vacation has been wrought with anxiety and tension due to parental conflict, maybe a trip isn't the best idea. However, you could plan enriching activities at home – like a museum visit, a staycation, or volunteering together. Remember, children are keenly aware of the tension around them.

Focus on Long-Term Benefits: Spring break is just one week. When making decisions, prioritize activities that foster well-rounded children. If your co-parent is planning a trip that aligns with their interests, consider the potential benefits of travel and cultural exposure – even if it's not your first choice.

The Bottom Line: Spring break should be a time for fun and relaxation, not legal battles. Cooperation is key. Remember, fostering a healthy relationship between your children and their other parent is the ultimate goal.

Need Help? If communication isn't your strong suit, consider mediation to facilitate a productive conversation with your co-parent. Remember, your children are watching – let's make spring break a positive memory, not a legal nightmare.

If you are still unable to resolve your issues, and you need help, you can set up a time to chat with our attorneys calling us at (502)653 7455 or by following this link.

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